Tuesday, August 24, 2010

it’s about time . . .

. . . I came up for air and visited my blogging friends . . .
Life’s been busy as usual . . . I took the children to the zoo about 10 days ago . . . I wanted to make sure we got in at least one trip this year when the weather was warm . . . The day went really well, other than our picnic “fiasco” . . . we took along sausages to grill at the fire pit. However, the wood was all damp, and previous picnickers had put out their fires with water, so we couldn’t get them to roast. So, after being there for 40 minutes, we decided to not bother trying to eat them, and move along. About 200 meters later, we came across some gas grills and decided to go for it. Picnic #2:
P1030834 Look out Gordon Ramsey . . . here comes Sam!
P1030836 Waiting for the food to cook.
P1030838_edited-1 Beautiful spot for a picnic!
Last weekend I took down the swimming pool – not because it was getting too cold to swim, but because nature knew that Fall is coming and the Birch tree seeds are falling constantly . . . very messy. It’s a big job to take it down, dry it out and fold it up for storage, but it’s done (still have the cover to wash and store and the ladder to take down though).
School is now in its second week. For the first time, ever, I have no “first day of school” photo. Sam is in his first year of Senior High, Mattias is in his last year of Elementary, Joel is in 3rd Grade and Sofia in 2nd Grade.
I have also gone back to work. I’m teaching at the younger kids’ school. For lack of a better term, I’m the relief teacher – covering classes when the teacher is teaching somewhere else. I teach Sofia’s class one block a week (religion), Joel’s class 6 blocks a week – 3 of which are team teaching a large group that also includes Mattias’ class,  Mattias’ class 6 blocks a week, and the grade 1’s 4 blocks a week. In a couple weeks, my adult English classes will start, as well as Scrapbooking. I think this fall may be a little overwhelming . . .
On the attachment front with Sofia, the summer continued to have ups and downs. In hindsight, it always seems so obvious that inappropriate behaviours are a result of insecurities that she feels, but as parents we’re still learning to work through these episodes in ways that are best for her and not the ways we expect to deal with it, or have always dealt with behaviours like these with the boys (read: we still haven’t figured out what we’re doing). Recently, after incidents, when the air has cleared and everyone has calmed down, Sofia has begun to ask us to tell her “her story”. She asks often why we picked her, why a girl, why not a baby, etc.? She loves to hear about the first letter we got – our referral – and the info that was included (even though some of it was wrong – it said she had curly hair). She loves to hear about how we planned the first trip and then our thoughts during that trip. However, she doesn’t seem to have too many memories of it herself – she relies on our memories and the pictures/video. I think, for Sofia, this is her birth story.
I also think, that a lot of the extreme behaviours we’re seeing right now are coming to a head, and soon we may see the light at the end of the tunnel . . . I think this because of her wanting to hear her story so much.


tammy said...

good to read an update. good luck with the teaching job!

Over-Caffeinated X 4 said...

I think Kristine stole your dog, by the way!

Will you and K and Mel plan a girls trip to visit me in Hawaii? It has to be as close to you as TN.

I think you hit it on the head with Sofia. It always reaches a boiling point... and we rarely recognize it til it's past, huh?

I THINK I'm back!

Love ya!

Craig and Phyllis said...

Sounds like your Fall will be very busy! That whole paragraph had me tired. : )

Sounds like a very good thing that Sophia is wanting to hear her story so much lately. I think Craig and I still are clueless about how to handle so much of the boys behavior. It is just so different than it was parenting our bio. kids. It was great to get some insight into some of it. That really helps to at least have some direction to shoot into. : ) I'll pray that the Lord will just bless you and me with amazing wisdom quickly! : )

Nancy said...

Whoa..........that's some schedule, girl...........don't over do it, but it is nice that you get to spend alot of time with the younger ones' school....even if they don't care for it...lol...:)
Luv ya all.........

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